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Facebook leaves me feeling miserable as I see people getting on with their lives and I cannot relate to them as I have no interests or hobbies. I can't focus on tasks at work. No matter how much or how little I have to do I always find myself just mentally wandering off after half an hour or so.
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Then after a few weeks I decide I didn't want it and throw it away. It almost feels like binge eating, and then throwing up afterwards, except I do it with "things". I struggle to find the energy or the lpnely to play with my kids, which makes me feel like a terrible parent. I'll take them out for day trips etc.
I have tried to get interested in things, such as sports, current affairs, politics, science, but it just doesn't work.
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I cannot "force" Bpred to be interested in these things. So I end up feeling lost in my own life. I don't know what I want to do, I try and find an identity in the things I own, and I feel lonely all the time, but don't want to speak to people.
I'm on antidepressants and have been for nerd now. They work, and I can tell if I have missed a day or two. But now my brain just feels dead. It is also mentally exhausting trying to articulate these feelings. I WANT a passion, an interest, a "raison d'etre", but there is nothing there.
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But there is no freedom for me to do anything on my own. I am either at work, or at home but can't do anything on my own.
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That made me feels so low and worthless. But I am steadily losing weight and that is great, so I am hoping that with renewed energy and vigour I will be able to start taking and interesting and enjoyment in things. But I wonder if it runs deeper than that. And the one place I know I need to make the effort, playing with my kids, I find really hard to do. Genuine lack of "that thing that I want to do"? I really don't know. A big emptiness that surrounds me, and I can't see the Horny females in Palmas out.
I know I am not alone in feeling this way. So I guess I want to put my feelings out there somewhere. One of the things about depression is that it switches the link between motivation and action so you end up having to do things before you feel motivated to do Bored lonely in need for a change.
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Are you seeing your doctor about your weight? If so it might be worth mentioning how you are feeling. Even if you aren't seeing your GP about your weight it might be worth making an appointment to get checked out.
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I don't plan too far lknely, I made that mistake before, and ended up getting cross at myself for not doing all the planned stuff. Working from home and looking after kids is a challenge. It does sound like time is not an issue Or renew some childhood hobbies, alongside your kids, just for the fun of it, rather than because it is something you feel that you have to do.
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Take a look at the youtube vid values cards exercise demonstration. It is odd but at my age i had not yet got a notion of what my longterm priorities in fact are.
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Maybe you could try getting some roomaits? I used to have this problem. I started finding things to do, fo playing videogames or building things. That worked for me for over a year but now I am even bored with the internet, facebook and video games.
I think I've just outlived my time.
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I have seen and done everything and I'm still bored with life. I guess that's why change is necessary even though I hate change. This is Boref most accurate description of how I feel, even though logically, it's not true.
I have not done a lot of things that I want to but I feel trapped by my life, by my circumstances, and I don't chante how to break free. Hi, find an app named journey. And start writing journals daily. Like speaking to you secret diary. Help me to self reflect.
Bored lonely in need for a change feel exactly the same lost soul, I think talking about it helps a lot with the 'intensity' of numbness.
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