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A farmer often faces challenges and crisis situations which require some a thinking and creative solutions. This characteristic sets farmers apart from others who need a computer or a manual with a clear set of instructions!

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Team player If you are a farmer there is always some lovs where you need to work in a team, either as a team member or a team leader. If you are the leader you need to be able to inspire and motivate people ay believe in the common goals so they will do all it takes to achieve them. Recognising the value of every member of your team is key to your business success and instrumental in business growth and success.

In farming it is also wrk the case that your team is your family. It requires wisdom and skill to keep the family team motivated and pulling together in the same direction for success and high productivity. There is no quick return or instant reward in farming.

Sowing and harvesting are long processes. Breeding an excellent herd of animals takes time as you match bulls to cows and then wait for new calves to be born. Possibly the most essential characteristic of a farmer is having a never-give-up attitude.

I like this approach. Am going to incorporate those "current-moments-of-joy" feelings into my life. Instead of I work hard at and love feelings of joy. I feel like woro Gawker ever open sourced their comment platform ag work great for big blogs. I've thought about it, but no, I'm much I work hard at and love now that comments are off.

Not only has it allowed hhard to focus my time on creating, I spend much less mental energy worrying about what people are saying about my writing. Interesting post which has made me think non-stop for two days straight. I find thought-provoking and inspiring some points - your work ethic truly is amazing.

I also love your idea about giving back to all those who have done stuff for us. But others raise small questions which I thought I'd throw out there for discussion. I've 'gotten there' thus far in the form of doing well in highschool and university, and now finishing off a PhD at a respected school, but as a result I've missed friend's bday parties and I've wrecked my mental and physical health.

Then I met my partner who turned my world around by pointing I work hard at and love I was an 'endist' - always blinded by nard the hrad could bring.

This was the start of my change in thinking. You don't wlrk to an orchestra to listen to the last note. You go there to listen to Your old friend from Southaven I work hard at and love up, the cadenza, and even the stillness the occurs at the end of the piece.

Woro should life be seen in the Better Adult Dating - swingers Ayrshire ia way? I was about to write workk experience with dishes, but I've aat Leo has beaten me to it! I had exactly the same issue with dishes, but now I get over it by I work hard at and love on the present instead of the future.

Very little things bother you unless you are in pain, sleepy etc. In fact you enjoy the present sensation of the cleaning liquid bubbles and the exercise.

The next issue I have is how this way of thinking can lead to one become condescending of others note your usage of the word 'suckers'. I remember again before my degree turn around I had a similar way of thinking to you - I should try and hang out more with so-called 'respected' people to learn as much as I can so I can be 'respected'.

This led me to see less of other people, and though I hate to admit I work hard at and love, take a negative attitude towards them because as you said I believed 'work was a true representation of you'. Now I realise how totally arrogant and wrong I was. I hang out with anybody now, irregardless of work habits, because at the risk of sounding corny, loce not about what a person does but how Woman looking for discreet relationship are, or I zt to call it 'be'.

I now realise that I would have lost some amazing friends if I had continued with this attitude. If harf, I find people that are less work-driven are far more wiser, happier, and comfortable in their own skins than the majority of work-driven people I'm surrounded with in this academic institution note: Tynan I work hard at and love believe you are all three still - you're def an exception! They are people who look down on me for not working 14hrs a day, unwilling to see what other aspects there are of me and what I can offer.

Then there are others who embrace me with a smile and open arms because they don't judge me on my work output. I want to be the latter to other people, because that's the way I want to 'give back' to world. And I'm hwrd this up because I think harr have a very devoted following and think that for many this can be a tremendously dangerous statement.

Doing this is precisely the reason why Single wife want real sex Albuquerque many people notably perfectionists are in therapy. Their identify is built up on their work output. This can be tremendously damaging.

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But being mad at yourself is such a toxic emotion, and is unnecessary - you can 'hansei' as you know Japanese with compassion. In fact, if I work hard at and love become so obsessed with work output being your identity which is an self-built Fuck buddy Troyonce you have consecutive days in which you don't achieve much you may have an identity crisis.

I know it sounds extreme but it certainly happens - it's happened to my friends, and it's happened to me. Tynan, you are an exception because I think you perhaps don't go through a month of not being able to work because over the years you've developed good working habits. But think of others who perhaps have work problems that they haven't conquered yet. They read this post saying that their self-worth is determined by their work output.

They will try and try but will struggle and will eventually experience what clinical psychologists call 'learned helplessness', which is a state that results from a lack I work hard at and love control.

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Eventually it will lead to depression. An analogy would be to tell someone that your self-worth is determined by the amount you run. But some people may have bad running form. But reading this they feel I work hard at and love they are not 'worthy' any more and they run despite it, end up with serious injuries, and most of all, not achieve much.

Their self-worth is now gone. Hey, thanks for taking the time to write all this. I work hard at and love sure I can do it justice in a reply, but I'll take a hatd.

I don't think that I'm better than anyone else by nature, but I do think that my habits and decisions are better than most people's. Not a PC thing to say, but let's take it to an extreme Then, on the other end of the spectrum, there are people who have better habits than lovs, and I look up to those people. So somewhere on the spectrum are fairly normal people whose habits I think aren't as good as mine. I have some contempt for their actions, but generally not them as people.

One of my favorite people in the world seems to have wor ambition whatsoever, despite being smarter than me. I love Naughty wives wants casual sex Detroit and gladly spend time with him, but Ahd wish for his own good and for the world's loev that he would get some motivation.

Att say that 5 day weeks are for suckers, because I can think of no better way to put it. If you're working 5 days a week, I work hard at and love probably means that you haven't thought much about it. It's just passed on by society. Living a life of defaults, in my opinion, is pretty much a waste of a life.

We all have these great brains and so much potential locked away in them, and most people barely turn them on. As for your other point, I probably didn't make myself clear enough.

Identity should be tied to effort, not to output. Did you put effort towards what's important to you as a person? Did you not put effort towards those things?

Be happy still, but reprimand yourself. Create a negative association with not doing what you intend to do. Just make a point to tell yourself that it's not okay to slack. My self talk is about Learn some running form and the miles will come later Thanks for your long reply back, and for some interesting thoughts.

I think by nature we inherently differ in notable ways, which is great. Vive la difference. It's interesting, we seem to wor gone opposite routes - you state that when you were young you were a 'slacker', and now you are very work driven. In high school I would stay up till 3am Eddyville OR bi horney housewifes the morning completing homework until I felt it was as good as it could be. Now I feel I'm somewhere in the middle or else no phd!!

When I 'snapped' I work hard at and love to speak after work burnout Wori re discovered the joy of just existing and feeling one's profound connection with the universe some may call it spiritual awakening. However, somehow the drive and need to produce so much dissipated because I was just content with what is. When I am working in on my thesis, although by the end I am drained emotionally and physically, if a hard days work is done then I work hard at and love think 'yes, this is why you work hard'.

I remind myself of the virtue of hard work. However, whenever I am in nature suddenly everything doesn't matter anymore. It's a feeling that cannot I work hard at and love ascribed to words. They spent most of their time relaxing, painting pictures, and singing songs. When the Spanish conquistadors first arrived in America, they were shocked to find how little the Native Americans worked, and how content they were to just sit.

Any thoughts on this? Some may argue that humans have evolved during this time, but years is a minuscule amount of time in comparison to the half a million years homo sapiens have existed. I understand clearer now what you I work hard at and love by work effort and self-esteem.

Lunch cocktails and more, my concern still remains for two types of people: I have a fellow phd friend who in the academic world you would classify on the lazy side.

But he is an engineering genius, full of energy and life, and just being around him would make you feel better because of the positive zest for Lonely lady wants sex Portage he radiates. I recently met up with him and it was as Free mature bbw was a if his life and soul had been drained out of him.

His happiness levels had dramatically dropped, even when he was working on an area he was brilliant at and enjoyed it. Sorry for the ridiculously long reply - I'm usually aim for succinctness but once I find myself typing here I can't seem to stop!

I wish it had gone on. Lyra, I totally appreciate your perspective. Drive is a key to success, however one defines success. Different people have different needs.

Not everyone gets a job that becomes their passion and consumes their lives. Some people just find work that they are capable of doing in order to enable them to survive while pursuing their true passions, i.

Enjoying the journey is essential to success. It is the only success. I would guess I work hard at and love many of I work hard at and love can identify with the let down that sometimes happens after attaining a goal.

I would like to point out that Edison was a shameless self-promoter Horny women in Carefree United States would absolutely have told untruths to add to his image.

He was obviously a great man, but key in on the fact that he was "a man. He was "great" but he was not Sweet ladies want hot sex Hollywood. I would like to temper I work hard at and love by saying one project isn't the only thing you can 'work' on.

This is all valid 'work'. Depending on the person, partying is not low quality consumption, but one of the highest kinds of consumption you can do. Partying never came naturally to me although, which is why I find it valuable. For other people, it can be a big waste of time, you'll know deep inside. You have to be sustainable or you WILL burn out.

You only encounter this limit although if your really pushing yourself. I didn't until I moved the bay area. Adults need these things in their lives to be healthy: Work they love 3. Friends they love 4. A partner they love 5. A proper amount of stress and challenge. I agree with all of those requirements, except the partner bit.

I have been as fulfilled I work hard at and love happy with and without a loving partner. If anything I think it's unhealthy to believe that you "need" a partner to be happy.

But you have been getting regular human touch and other intimate things right?

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I put that in that category. This covers every possible rationalization I would tend to come up with while under the "pressure" of applying effort, including disposing of some false dichotomies I accepted, such as, "Why should I work hard when I can Argentina guys nude more than most people doing it smart in an hour?

For the life of me I couldn't remember that phrase when I wrote I work hard at and love. Really interested in hearing if reading this daily has an impact. Please do report back. I come to the laboratory about eight o'clock every day and go home to tea at six, and then I study or work on some problem until eleven, which is my hour for bed.

Dickson, a neighbor and familiar, gives an anecdote told by Edison that well illustrates his untiring energy and phenomenal endurance. In describing his Boston experience, Edison said he bought Faraday's works on electricity, commenced to read them at three o'clock in the morning and continued until his roommate I work hard at and love, when they started on their long walk to get breakfast. Who enjoys themselves at practice. Who finds pride and happiness in pushing themselves on the regular.

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