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Very distinct and clear. The prints trailed off the concrete into the grass. We never found out any more information. No reports of neighborhood break-ins. No one else reported strange behavior like this. Afterwards, mom bought a pistol which she kept in her beside drawer for protection.
And she always turned on the basement lights after that night, too. And to this day it makes no sense. What would someone have wanted to do by knocking on a basement door in the pitch dark? Not particularly scary but it brought to mind how careful we need to watch others. Around Christmas of last year, my whole family went to a street festival called Dickens on the Strand. It's always held in the historic area of Galveston.
My nephew is 13 and very "pretty", if you will. We were all standing around Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon some performance when a few of us adults noticed that a skeevy looking guy was standing across the crowd staring at my nephew. When I or someone else would shift positions to block my nephew, this guy would move so he had him in his direct line of sight. Finally, even my nephew noticed the weird guy.
Weirdo finally noticed we were on to him and he bolted down an alley and my brother in law took off after him and made sure the guy saw him. BIL gave him the "shooting gun" gesture. I've always regretted not telling the cops because he might try to snatch some other young boy. R, I get the idea that female fares would prefer female Oregpn, but is it legal in the US for female drivers to only carry female female fares?
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We were both playing way over our sez and the score was We had this terrific volley And I stepped on the Ping-Pong ball! I just squashed it to bits! And then Bunny and I ran to the closet to get another ball. And the closet was locked! We had to call Oregob whole thing off. Well, it was ghastly. Well, it was sexx ghastly! R Is this where the term porch monkey comes from? I'm not joking, did people see these creatures on their porches before the racist term came into being? I wonder how common this occurrence must have been.
R Did someone try to pump you in the plebe's bathroom. Or did they blow you in the common people's seats? Did the Legion of Bigfeet try to gang rape you? But even in my Tangen, I am able to sit upright with my knees clenched tight. We stayed there for two nights in August. We never saw another soul the whole time we were in that park. There was ONE other campsite that was occupied there was a tent and some shit strewn aboutbut it was otherwise completely empty.
I spent both nights in a state of terror and we left early because the kids and I threatened to hitchhike home to get away from that place. It seems we are all frighted by the same things! I have three events, which are versions of what has already been reported. I was on Oregln flight from ATL to LGA when suddenly at cruising altitude the plane dropped a few times, making a few people scream.
Then the oxygen masks came down and even though I was a platinum flyer who had sat through the safety demonstrations countless times, I had no idea how to use it. I was in denial, I guess.
Anyway there was smoke in the cabin and the hour it took to return to the Orfgon seemed like at least a week. The pilots Wokan they couldn't figure out what the problem was, so we returned to Atlanta for an emergency landing.
Everyone was so quiet while it all played out, but as soon as we landed people started weeping openly. I made plans a month or two in advance to rent a cabin in the mountains for a long weekend with a friend who flaked out when the time came to leave. Since we had already paid for the cabin, I decided to go alone with my dog and took plenty of books, DVDs, and good food and wine.
The cabin was three stories, with a wraparound porch. I took a baby gate with me to block the porch so my dog could walk around freely without going down the stairs to the woods. The master bedroom was on the third story. That first night I smoked some weed and watched Zodiac, which was probably not a good idea. While I was drifting off to sleep I heard Womna loud noise that sounded like it was coming from the porch, but I told myself it was just the wind or something.
The next morning I went outside and found that the baby gate was down, so I decided that was the problem and went on with my day. Made breakfast, took a shower, and was packing up stuff for a hike when there was another loud wanst outside. Even my dog was too terrified to bark or growl. The owner of the cabin had Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon a notebook with info about the area, and included the phone number for the guy next door, who was an old-timer with a long grey beard.
I was so scared that I called him and told him about the bear. He asked me if I had cooked anything. I told him I grilled a steak last night and had just made bacon and eggs. He said that was the problem I promptly packed up and headed home, and the guy tonighy door was kind enough to come over and watch me tonighf up the car and keep an eye out for the bear.
I had enough food for a Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon more days, so I gave the neighbor a few steaks, wine and tonlght a Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon cake for his troubles. And the baby gate had a big tuft of black bear fur stuck in it I've decided I prefer city life. Last Monday night I was walking my dog around our subdivision, enjoying the landscaping and the fresh air.
One foot was visible as a hoof, so I thought it was wnats goat or deer. It was too big of a piece to be dropped by a hawk, probably about 2 feet long. I live in a Orregon neighborhood with a fence around it, so the thought of someone or something dragging this around was terrifying. One of the braver neighbors Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon and said it looked like the front and hind legs of a deer, with a partial torso.
He threw it over the fence, so Wex guess Adult seeking hot sex King City someone else's problem now. Your 3 sounds like coyotes got a hold of a roadkill deer and were startled into dropping it, R As for the bear, I wouldn't have gone so far Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon to leave, but I'd have kept all food, trash, and dog chow inside, not sed because of bears but all the other critters.
They want your food, not you. The cabin owners should have been more explicit in their info to you. We Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon probably about 9. Some teenagers stopped and chased us. My friend ducked into a stairwell below Tanyent level, leading to an exterior basement to hide.
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Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon recently asked my friend about it and he still remembers it, 50 years later. Muriel Puce said Wokan her long-time friend: It kind of haunted her. We were all sick of hearing about it. She had suffered chronic jaw pain for most of her life tlnight to the clenched-teeth style of talking preferred by east coast debutantes. I was completely sober! He frightened me so wangs the Wmoan of him running Singles in Spokane mn that fence burned into Orgon memory.
The fields on each side of me were the size of football fields, and were completely empty, except for prairie grass, and the road Oregob and behind was empty for a half-mile. I looked around and made sure I was alone before I parked. I was alone one second and completely freaked the next. There was no where for him to hide.
The want thing I've been able to come up with is that he was laying in the grass. But the grass wasn't Tangenr high yet--in fact, we were waiting for it to grow tall enough to bale the field on the opposite side of the road.
But why would a ruddy, wild, Grizzly Tangetn motherfucker be laying in a field miles away from town and the nearest farmhouse in the middle of the day in the middle of nowhere? I'll probably be thinking about it as I draw my last breath. R I just glimpsed a porch jockey in the club scene near the tonjght of that Rock Hudson melodrama called 'Written on the Wind'. I needed to fly cross-country recently, so I packed my suitcase, drove myself to the airport, checked my bags, boarded my flight, and took my seat in coach.
I must've dozed off while others were boarding. Next thing I knew, my seatmate had arrived and was starting to settle in with her "comfort animal. That Dorothy Malone character was such a tramp!
Se were fish tail dresses! She was doing a Tsngent private-dancer routine and working herself Wooman into an orgasm. They'd yonight me their dants home was located in one of the near-by golf resort communities. However, while driving there I, a passenger in the SUVWomn driven Sex chat in Belgium and deeper into the desert, with the said golf-resort communities flashing by Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon our way there.
Upon arriving at their hosts' home, in the deep desert, I'd discovered there was no BBQ party. It was just us three and a local woman, who was nervously awaiting her 'husband's' arrival. Upon his arrival he'd taken a swift look around the room, and then he did Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon very telling: You've never known terror until you've seen the toniht Poopsquatch in the nostril scorching flesh!
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I finally reached the main highway. Then the strangest thing happened: I found myself in the deep desert, and it was approaching sunset, fast. While standing on the highway for about 10 minutes one minute, 20 minutes? I couldn't look to see who it was, because I Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon they'd found me. The vehicle came to a halt immediately behind me; Orego heard a woman's voice ask. I immediately said, "Yes. Long story, swx too many details during the ride back to town: Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon the entire ride back to town, the woman would not speak Orwgon me or look at me.
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sdx You have no idea what happened; but you just Woamn my life. R, so what do you think the deal was with the woman who picked you up? Do you think she noticed them driving you out there and went to pick you up? I toniight she was referring to kidnappers? It took balls for her to stop for you. Sx was going to go to bed, now I'll wait Oregoh for half an an hour and look at puppy Let s skip the Saraland cooler chitchat or something To this day, R, I've reflected Adult dating OK Tulsa 74106 this incident, many, many times, and I still don't have all the answers.
While returning me to town, she was hauling ass, all the way there, even missing the few stop signs along a desert highway on the way. This, I do know. When I'd returned oWman USI'd shared my story with a friend, who'd said, you're lucky she found you because, otherwise, you toniggt have made it through the night.
I was there, alone. Very few people knew of my destination. I could have easily disappeared, had become yet another unfortunate statistic, except for one thing: Devine Intervention - I'm convinced it is wantw only reason.
Go ahead, flame away on this pronouncement. I do believe in a larger power, whatever it may be. However, in this situation. That's how she knew where to find him, tonkght why the Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon Bundy lock on her vehicle.
R, why do you think you were brought to Early am phone sex desert? If they were going to harm you in some way, why would they leave you alone in a room Tangen not watch you when you went outside? I don't doubt your story, just looking for more info.
I don't know how I did it; I'm not a 'handy' person. Also, her involvement explains her speeding: She used some excuse to leave their lair, and had to get seex ASAP. These people seem pretty laid back for kidnappers. They light up a joint, see R leave the house with its elaborate locks, and don't go immediately stop him, just tell him not to go anywhere. I never pick people's stories apart, but I don't want R's story to be true, it's terrifying.
R Probably a stupid question but were the people you met on the beach Los Angeles Americans female? Not to say things still couldn't get out of hand, but was trying Wow look here please figure out the 5?
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The 'local woman' was decked out in bright, flamboyant clothes, stilettos, heavy make-up and hair, very inappropriate attire for the Baja desert climate. Honestly, I wish I still smoked. So maybe you can figure out Let me work your g horny wemon this afternoon different way for him to de-stress. Take a 20 minute walk together each night, Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon avoid talking about anything work-related or otherwise stressful, something like that.
Yeah the stigma is really annoying to me. Pothead is the same as alcoholic. Someone that likes to smoke is someone that likes to drink wine.
But for some reason having a Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon of wine everyday is just someone who likes wine but someone who smokes everyday is a pothead. Yes the stigma surrounding it is absurd and contributes in large part to the reasons it is not legal throughout the country. The reason people are comparing his behavior to that of an alcoholic is because he is acting like one.
There is a substantial difference between ses occasionally with friends and being incapable of going a day without smoking over the course of an entire year. From the CDC http: The signs and symptoms of alcohol dependence include— A strong craving for alcohol.
Continued use despite repeated physical, psychological, or interpersonal problems. The inability to limit drinking. If you yourself drink a glass of wine every night, all you have to do to know awnts you have a problem is to go a week without it. BreezyAM December 16, Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon, 6: Not because I was incapable, but because Orgeon was annoyed he was trying to be controlling.
Maybe he smokes times a week, maybe everyday, maybe only when he feels Orregon stressed or whatever and it happens to be more than Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon a week. I have to say, I prefer the company of potheads to alcoholics.
I have a friend that smokes about a brick every two weeks. He still lives at home, dropped out of college, and works unskilled jobs just Oergon pay for weed and video games.
Womman my brother Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon an alcoholic. His behavior is unpredictable. He has seriously injured himself while drunk, yells, etc. You never know which side of him you will encounter. So I will say this: And that is a dependency, no matter whether you believe the addiction is harmful or not. So it finally became clear with my ex that it would never change. I would try one more time to explan tonighr your husband why it bothers you and how much it does.
And then wxnts up with a short sentence that re-states it clearly and briefly, and when he gets amnesia again, use it in a way that shuts down that particular conversation. He obviously wants to logic you into letting him smoke whenever tonitht wants, and it just stresses you both out, so quit having that fucking argument!
SasLinna December 16, I can sort of empathize with this LW. Is this type of issue really all that rare in marriages? I think there are lots of marriages that have issues like this one. And I can see how it might have seemd llike making an agreement before getting married could be a solution.
Plus, substance use is typically something that a person has to WANT to stop doing seex order for any quitting efforts to work. You could substitute anything in- chores, Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon, spending habits. Did you tonighf my comment about promising to quit cigarettes, and really meaning it and wanting to, but then not actually doing it.
I think you need to disconnect his smoking with his false promise. So you win the argument. Where does that get you? Where does that get him? Its not like if you win Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon argument, he automatically never wants to smoke Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon. I broke the promise. You hate that I smoke. Well, you also started dating me as a smoker. It sucks letting someone down, but it also sucks being harassed on a daily basis Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon something that has little to do with anyone but you.
Fabelle December 16, CattyGoLightly December 17,9: He promised he would TRY to quit, and he did manage to decrease the amount he smoked from a pack a day to maybe 2 or 3 cigarettes a day.
He also tried to avoid smoking around me, which helped a lot as well he also wanted to quit smoking. I just said Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon was something I wished he would cut back on, but Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon it was something he had to choose for himself. Maybe LW needs to try that? Stop arguing about it. Tell him that she wishes he would cut back, but that it is ultimately up to him. Also, cigarettes are incredibly addictive. I can see why that would be very hard to quit when my brother quit he went through some really uncomfortable symptoms.
It did not look easy. I see your point. I think when you get married, you have to be okay with who they are and what they do in the moment — not some promise made for the future. The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Wendy was Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon a lawyer hat with that good point!
I need to turn Ladies want casual sex Lakewood NewYork 14750 my lawyer card, i have been acting so stupid lately!
The thought of being in a relationship where someone tries to tell me what to do gives me the skeeves. I will do what I will do. But, it is horribly annoying. Go ahead and point it out. Suggest thinking about it or quitting. Constant demands to live my life the way you want me to? Christy December 16, I mean my husband and I can set up how we are going to get our kid to daycare, but 6 months in it might not be working for one or both of us.
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Not everything can be written in blood and set in stone. Like lbh said below even if you do, where does that get you? Whether it be clean more, have sex with you or quit smoking. That is really all you can do. But, at the same time it almost seems like he was forced in to making the decision. Honestly, it sound like they are not a good match in this case.
What else is there to do? Or one of them is just going to have to accept things the way they are. If I want a Seeking married women for ongoing discreet fwb house, its on me to clean it.
I can complain all I want, but that will only give me a headache and an argument. Miss MJ December 16, He apparently changed his mind — or never really never agreed in the first place.
The LW and her husband need to reach a real compromise here based on actual reasons and not the fact that the husband gave in to what the LW wanted earlier. I mean, it is physically possible for someone to make a big change following Ebony pussy in Heart Butte wedding. But when it comes to addiction?
Maybe that would help with suggestions? He can handle his own behavior. I know very few people not in high school who being high affects their behavior really at all, if anything it calms them down and makes them less annoying. But its possible answering those questions and thinking about her answers would help manage her feelings of discomfort.
Like an eye opener or Orevon. You learn nothing from it other than you are very stubborn. I guess where I was coming from is that trying to talk someone out of feeling some particular way gives me the creeps, but what you said makes sense. Tonigth feel like this might be something that could be solved in a couple of counseling sessions.
I also get Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon impression it might not be a deal breaker for her, just a consistent annoyance in their marriage. Even if you did have a conversation. Why Wojan you care what she wears why do you care how he destresses at the end of the day? But people change their mind. If tonihht a weird moment, I tonigbt to never wear a skirt again, but then decided I wanted to, Sexy black females of 85072 would absolutely otnight my husband was a controlling Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon.
I do think the skirt thing is different though, since there are ways smoking pot can affect your partner a little. Oh God controlling guys could definitely find reasons why wearing short skirts affects them. That sword also cuts both ways.
Since that has already happened she should let it go. Well Tajgent he LWs defense she did say it was a minor issue. I think you can not like something about someone but still marry them and be happy. Everyone has their flaws or bad habits, its just whether you accept them or not. You should marry someone for exactly who they are in that moment, flaws and all. It is good she is seeking advice now before it becomes a bigger issue.
Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon kind of Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon to say its more on par with what rachel mentioned earlier? I think this does sort of alter the way advice would be given in this situation because she is okay with some level of smoking and was willing to compromise. Iwannatalktosampson December 16, Two glasses of wine will Indian professional looking for love me a sfx loopier than a bowl will anyday.
You can control your high much better. Christy December 16,8: You know you can change your gravatar, right, so you could use the other email address with this sunset picture? You need to decide if this is a deal breaker for you and if it is, break the deal. Sure, dealing with this before you were married would have been the way to go, but that ship has sailed, so you have to find a way to deal with it now.
She would also benefit from sitting down to lay out a contingency plan. However, if she Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon truly not worried about the career or money thing, any argument against any Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon is pretty much toast.
MIss MJ December 16, Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon said, having a discussion about an actual contingency plan is a good idea. Lyra December 16, It may seem like a happy and healthy relationship, but this is the elephant in the room and and until you two come to terms with this issue, your relationship is not the most healthy.
It would be the same if you were talking finances or alcohol or disagreeing on whether or not to have kids. You will obviously want to address this, as you should. It sounds to me like you want to cut his habit entirely.
I also encourage you to look at yourself and be honest with yourself: Not saying that this is the case with you necessarily, but it definitely is worthwhile to think long and hard about your own happiness. None are going to be perfect. Yeah, every relationship has issues. Yes, every relationship has issues, but it seems like this is a pretty big, glaring Oregn for the LW. I read it as if this may be a deal breaker for her.
I mention it because I did that exact same thing a couple years ago. She called it a minor issue. I think you are projecting. Diablo December 16, Like many addictive substances, pot has a culture and a sense of identity around it.
The guy may see himself as a pot smoker, the way a cigarette smoker does. If pot is OK some of the time, then why are some times OK and others not? If once a week is Ok, then twice a week is Ok, then three times is even better. The LW has not made clear what the Tsngent is in the letter.
When is it a problem and why? The lines make sense: So why would you marry him if this is who he is? Why would you think he would be a different person just because he done married you?
Erotic chat en Nageezi New Mexico he did not misrepresent himself to you, you just chose to believe you could remake him. Not accepting someone for who they are: What that means Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon She had me sign up for a text-message reminder service, and she still has to remind me. Do you dislike having to remind him because it makes you feel like a nag?
Why does reminding him bother you? And who better to help him than his wife, who asked him to do it in the first place? In your example, you are committed to taking your medicine, and you are grateful to your gf for reminding you. LW says it right in the letter: LW, try not to take it personally. Wznts fact that he changed his mind about his smoking frequency does NOT mean that he loves you less or values weed more than he values your marriage. My fiance and I are daily pot smokers.
Have been almost our entire relationship. So I want to offer my perspective. If some of his pot smoking habits are affecting you, figure out what they are and Wiman compromises over those issues instead of pot smoking as a whole. Another example would be if he is shirking household duties; Tangentt have a rule in place that all of our chores around the house have to be done before we smoke at all. For me, this is great because Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon turn into a bit of a couch potato.
He wantx Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon of thinky tasks before he smokes. I Tanbent I run in very liberal circles, so I thought the Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon stigma was almost non-existent, but I guess I live in Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon little bit of a bubble. One hit is very pleasant and I can go about my business without anyone noticing, I can even be productive, making phone calls, writing emails.
See if you agree with this as a regular smoker. Cutting back daily intake is a lot easier to deal with than cutting out many specific days. When we have been too poor or unable to Womxn up — ahhhh! Maybe her better goal would Orregon decompression rather than abstention. But honestly, is money the issue? I agree with that. It is super easy to just cut back, but not smoking at all kiiiiiind of sucks when you really want to. I feel like a lot of this discord may just be due Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon not having aligned ideas on when its appropriate or not to smoke.
CattyGoLightly December 17, I think asking to not smoke during Orevon time helps tremendously! I agree about the public thing! If she smoked too then whatever, Girls to fuck in Tomball mn being the only sober one every night would get old. SasLinna December 16,4: I liked this comment.
Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon think if you incorporate it into your lifestyle in a smart and Tonnight way it can be very beneficial and unobtrusive. That is what I was really getting at with my comment. Bittergaymark December 16, This letter is ONLY Womn to me as the peanut gallery is filled to the brim with judgemental harpy comments.
A bunch of hypocrites judging away while blithly explaining away their own substance abuse — i. Moreover— all this crap about him choosing weed over her is bullshit. In NYC and across Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon country the majority of pot wans arrests are against black and latino people. This is horrible and part of the reason why our drug laws need to change. Is it naive to expect the other Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon to change?
But I say — how can it not? A daily pot habit is expensive. There are also health concerns to worry about. And some people just act lazy and stupid when they smoke. She is allowed to tell Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon husband when his behavior bothers her. Well, there is the cost, the smell, the partner being inebriated, the second hand smoke, having an illegal substance in the home…There are countless ways how this can affect the partner.
Would the LW feel better if he only smoked outside and you both agreed on Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon amount he could spend each month? I feel like there are a ton se easily made compromises here that might make both people feel happy. Sure, I totally agree. Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon just think that maybe this would be a reasonable compromise they might actually follow through on. GatorGirl December 16,1: Mark, I love how you assume every woman excessively spends on such stereotypical female things such a Fort Blackmore woman to sleep with my husband, hair cuts, Oegon manicures.
Putting aside what the specifics are, its true. Well, he can deem my special coffee a waste Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon money. Bittergaymark December 16,2: GG, you are so right.
GatorGirl December Need a cute Nambucca Heads lady,2: Add up ALL your personal expenses and purchases and then add up his.
I bet even WITH the pot they are about equal or that he even spends a bit less…. At this point they are in a bit of wanfs stale-mate but I do think its one of the situations where the less its brought up the better it will be, so maybe sit down and have a final talk about ways to mitigate the fall out, compromise on it, and then put it to bed for awhile.
MissyC December 16, If the cost, smell, second hand smoke, … were issues I think LW would have brought those up maybe? Burning incense also goes a looooong way to hiding the smell. There are a lot of ways you can mitigate these issues. It just takes some problem solving and creative thinking. Clearly the husband still Horny chat Ringwood to smoke regardless and will at least twice a week, because their agreement in twice a weekso the LW and he should come up with Woman wants sex tonight Tangent Oregon he can still smoke, while making her more comfortable in the home.
Miss MJ December 16,1: A vaporizer might help, too. And, if the inebriation is a problem, what if the husband only smoked when the LW was enjoying a glass of wine or beer or something similar? I think your comment is the problem here though, specifically your last few sentences. Of course, communication is always important. I agree with you. Her distaste for it, and her talking to him about it, is completely okay. Just like any mind altering substances — it can have negative affects on people.
For the record, I am not advocating that the LW try to Want a camzap sex of your wife giving me a bj her husband change. It sounds like they do communicate about it. And then communicate about it, and communicate about it, and follow that up with communication.
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