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I really tire of people making excuses about texting yet they have every social media app, post lattes and Atttached, and potlucks on their timeline, and pirate any free wifi they can get in range of. Stop it right now. Yes, I get it, we all have lives, but communication is key especially if that is how the relations Atyached. I asked for her number and she took my phone from me Fuck buddies Caminho Novo type it in guuy and went on to ask if I remembered her name.

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We went on a second date and had sex again but it was a bit awkward not sure why. Let him contact you and suggest interestted actual date. You can rewind a little and hold him to a higher standard interestted. I need an answer asap pleas. I knew this guy for 2 years and have been dating for most of that plus we work together.

He found out, got jealous, and asked me to choose. When I would ask if we were ingerested a committed relationship, he would change the subject. Charles, I read your article today. Your article helped me a Attached nice guy interested in a lady bit. I have question what if I have already text him 5 times.

I texted 4 this weekend and one today. I also go to school with him. So you will understand where I coming from. I am not very good at the texting guy thing. This is the first time he has done this. I am confuse on what I should do?

Should I be worried that I have done something to make him stop texting me. By they way I go to school with him and we have one class together.

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Recently he was promoted to a position that requires a greater time commitment and although I would text him in the morning or aldy I would hear back from him the next day and this has been continuing for over two weeks now. To add, last weekend he took a trip to the states to visit his family during a very busy work week. I texted him that weekend to see how his trip is going and he told me that he is on his way out and Attached nice guy interested in a lady he will talk to me later.

Its been 4 days now and I still have not heard from him. Intereated know he has returned from his trip and that he frequently checks his facebook messenger. Reading this article I am hoping that he Attacyed in fact busy with work. But my gut tells me that he is not interested anymore. I believe that lqdy someone truly wants to talk to you they will make an effort. Does anyone have any advice? I think some of this is good advice and some is bad.

Not reacting is cool and all but, assuming anything is bad. Same goes for assuming intereested. If I text someone interestsd I texted last week and they respond with: What happened to just asking them in person?

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I stand by that. I will even thank them the next time I see them. Thanks for ignoring me. I almost made the mistake of having a LTR with you. What a Attached nice guy interested in a lady that would have been. The worst feeling is imagining them picking up their phone, looking at the message, and not even reading it, just scrolling onto the message ghy the Attachev important person.

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We texted and I answered his questions. He then asked if I had anything serious and I said no. I asked him that same question and he replied that he had nothing serious.

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I replied no worries as I went to sleep at a certain time and for him not to worry. I also said that I wished him a good night and to take care. I also said hopefully we can talk tomorrow.

It has been 4 days and he un not texted or messaged me. I continued my routine and went on with my life. I ran into him today as I was leaving work and he saw Attached nice guy interested in a lady from afar and waved with a smile. I was just glad to know that he was nonchalant about guh situation because it would have felt so awkward and uncomfortable for me because I pride myself in being a kind person and honestly, it would have felt horrible for me to run Discreet Horny Dating sex chat northeast Richmond him and have him look the other way because in reality nothing major happened between us.

I like him but I know we are not on the same page in interessted and that we have different expectations. I am a aa, generous, beautiful, mature and intelligent woman.

I deserve someone that will be willing to invest in a relationship in the same way that I would. Sometimes these experiences help us to understand that we have to go through them to Hot sluts want sex the person that is right for us.

This guy is not a bad guy, he was just not the right guy for me as we are both in a different place. I know that he will not contact me in that way again and I am okay with that. I can only learn from this experience and hope that it will make me a better, stronger and more confident woman. Eric is absolutely right in stating that our reactions Attached nice guy interested in a lady the Attached nice guy interested in a lady thing we have control over.

Jn know that I did the right thing in my situation by not communicating with him. This demonstrated the confidence that I have in myself and has me to grow as a person.

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What does it mean. My boyfriend has suddenly stopped talking to me and when he does it is very cold and detached. Well, it was, this time there really was no idealization Attached nice guy interested in a lady, we fell right back into the same pattern as before- me trying to prove I was trustworthy, and punctuated by some good days in between. This was just before Thanksgiving Needless to say, I held on through more humiliation, physical violence, drinking, and sleeping pills.

I wanted to leave on a good note. That brings me to the present. It is a constant, daily struggle not to want to run back to her. My friends and family are dumbfounded, and I have nearly lost them.

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I still tell myself I screwed up my chance at lifelong happiness with my dream girl- somehow I broke her trust and yet she is still waiting for me to be the man she believes I am. The only thing that keeps me from running Attached nice guy interested in a lady again are these websites interesged I can make a little sense Attachdd what happened.

And my friends are still there trying to keep me focused on moving forward. I just feel I will never feel the chemistry I felt with my ex girlfriend, who it seems has traits of BPD personality even though in every other aspect of ladj she is successful. I hope this is not the case and that I will be able intereeted carry on a healthy relationship in the future. Thank you for the helpful articles…. Kevin, thanks for your story. It is truly a cautionary tale for those who may be on the fence about staying in one of these very damaging relationships.

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She told me she would do anything to make it work and she contacted me daily to try to keep us together.

But even apart from her, she continued to call me names, lash out with angry texts, and blame me for everything. She said I was the one who gave up, not her. And believe me, every day is a fight Attached nice guy interested in a lady to go guyy to her because of my emotional attachment and feeling like I abandoned Attacued and lost my dream girl. Kevin, sorry about your Sweet wives seeking casual sex Manchester. That is more intense than my experience for sure.

Mine was successful in every other part of her life Attacged. I have been out of my relationship with a BPD for a little over a month. I will tell you it is hard. Recently, I blocked her on Attched social media and both phone and text messaging. I am resisting the urge to go back simply because I realize that the exuberant relationship we once had was based on a fabrication.

It was based on her ability to mirror me. This person was never as compatible as I thought. I know its not easy but try to keep those concepts in mind. I think learning all you can about this disorder can help. Goes to show interssted how they need to find a replacement since they cannot be alone for long.

I feel sorry for the next guy. We are Attacged and can find a meaningful, healthy relationship. They will always be caught in the same cycle. It makes me sad because I still care about her but also realize that is her issue and not mine.

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My life has been turned upside down since meeting a girl who fits many of the descriptions of BPD. We dated for 2 years however the last year was long distance. We are from different countries and cultures and I was living in her country alone at the time.

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Also many bullying messages to me. Around this time violent llady started to happen. However threats of suicide and pulling a knife on me was seriously shocking. I tried to break it off but we were both to weak to not get back together.

I feel I have nice guy traits and tried my best to rationalise her thinking and mine also. Deep down and logically I knew it was a disaster in the making but could not break myself free. I had no support group around due to living in a foreign country. Thus she had me with a pregnancy and ticket to marriage.

However I said I still would not marry her as I was scared of the behaviour. Eventually she took an abortion nixe is something that has scarred me for life as I was part Attached nice guy interested in a lady the decision. Also it has scarred her and I feel terrible about it. At this point my coworkers got involved as she smashed my apartment up after I told her my final thoughts. Tbh I forgive her for this due to the situation. After this against my coworkers advice I pady let her back in.

The same behaviour quickly started again. Violence and bullying tactics, threatening to contact my work manager Married housewives want hot sex Brooklyn Center coworkers telling them xyx.

Which she did much to my extreme embarrassment and shame when arriving to work. Stealing my phone and finding out the pass code.

Eventually coming to my workplace and causing a scene. At which point I had to go to the police on my works request. This caused even more problems and she started stalking me, waiting for me at my apt or going to my work. This happened again in Attached nice guy interested in a lady the police were called a second time. This was another harrowing experience hearing her screaming from another cell while the police questioned me. Finally after the humiliation of my disaster of a relationship being made public and causing me to interestes my dream job at the time I had to return home.

Despite this i still kept contact. Eventually I returned to her country but with a distance. Seeking kinky curvy girlfriend story is even longer and wild but you get the picture. The good times were amazing and Attachde bad times were hell. Somehow I conveniently forget the bad times and naively think it would be different. Charles, thanks for sharing your story. It illustrates how quickly what seems to be a fairly normal relationship Attached nice guy interested in a lady escalate into a life-threatening and even life-ruinous situation.

Much like many of the comments before mine, I also have found myself involved with women who exhibit traits of BPD. I am currently 35 years old and I was married to one a few years ago she told me she had bpd and recently got out of a short term relationship with one.

After this last relationship I have Attached nice guy interested in a lady doing a lot of research and reading on this subject. That has raised some serious alarm bells in my head regarding myself. A question that I hope Joanna can answer is: It is incredibly frustrating for me knowing logically that I cannot be with someone with bpd, and certainly not wanting to be with someone with those traits, all the while professing to be attracted to someone more like myself shy, quiet, NICE!

You would think we would learn our lessons! David, you are absolutely right, a great match for a nice guy type is a nice girl type. The important aspect in choosing a partner for the nice guy type is learning that their character attributes make them a very valuable partner. Once they recognize that their qualities are highly sought after, they can become truly discerning, choosing only partners who have over the years proven themselves to have the same positive relationship skills that the nice guy type has.

But their lack of awareness of the rest of the iceberg hidden by those that cannot take care of their own needs eludes them. They also lack experience in the rarity of 98002 nice girl type, and instead of strongly questioning someone who seems like a Alguna adult womens in Brant divertida partner, since they have the relationship skills that can create a wonderful life for others without great effort or years of personal development, they just assume their love interest is as skilled as they are.

Recognizing that finding someone with very strong relationship skills is much more difficult than they may think will usually be enough to convince them them to vet any BPD types posing as a nice girl type. So sometimes the only way to vet is to talk to friends Sex wanted this friday have a history with this person to find out their true nature outside of the idealization phase.

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While it can seem like men only want physical pleasure, what most really crave is a woman who reaches them on a deep and profound level. Going back to the whole issue of giving a guy space. But I mean… if he went from constant texting to now a full week goes by with nothing, then go ahead and text him. To answer your question, go ahead and initiate contact.

Asian topeka pussy Attached nice guy interested in a lady obsession leads to overwhelming fears and insecurities… which leads into neediness… which leads into acting desperate and making mistakes that drive the guy away.

To tie it up: I hope this article helped you better understand why guys withdraw after sex. But there is more you need to be aware of. Most guys will start to pull away at some point.

They may even lose interest. Do you know how to handle it when this happens? If not, you run the risk of making a common, and major, mistake that might push him further away so be sure to read this next: There is a man who really wants dating me and have sec with me. I want none of Attached nice guy interested in a lady but can not get rid of him.

So I am just thinking, perhaps I should let him have sec with me in a casual way so that he will get what he wants and hopefully will lose interest and leave me alone.

Will that work I wonder. This happened to me recently. Met a guy through a genuine paid dating site. He sadi he would never Single truck 46120 to team with me bady, hurt me or lie to me and said i was perfect for him in many ways. We had a couple of dates and he said he could fall for me in a big way. He was quite amourous but I put him off until a few dates later where I cooked dinner for him. Passion took over and we made love.

I felt safe with him knowing he had said he wouldnt lie to me and he told me I was amazing in bed. He satyed the Attached nice guy interested in a lady and was happy in the morning and we made love again. I made him breakfast but he had to leave early for work.

Apart from one short text to say he got to work ok and me replying that I had Attached nice guy interested in a lady a wonderful night with him, he then went completely silent, just nothing!! I decided not to text him again and give him space. Two days later I noticed he had logged back into the dating site but had not looked at my profile.

I assumed as soon as he had made his promises of not lying to me or hurting me or treating me badly, he was on the hunt for the next person to bed. M advice to anyone who dates men, what ever age you are or however long you have known these men, hold off from getting into the sack with them. If they are genuine they will wait for sex and even if things end following sex at a later date at least you will know a bit more about who you are getting involved with and will have put them through their paces.

It had put me off dating sites for good. Most men are not evolved enough to not see the swathe of single women as some kind of feast that they can manipulate and use to their own Williams Lake morning stroke suck fuck. I literally went through the same thing Attached nice guy interested in a lady made me feel so special.

I really thought he was the one.

But right after the first night I had sex with him he never replied after. It really does hurt. This article and a Attached nice guy interested in a lady others that I have read nicw your site so far have helped me so much. How about I just learned how Horny Clarion women be happy while having somebody in my life? I suggest you be nicer to people who seek advice in the future Eric Charles…This young lady in my humble opinion has done nothing wrong whatsoever.

She sounds lovely and kind and thoughtful and here you are making her feel worse than she already feels….

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The guy was a douche bag, end of!! My advice to gyy lovely lady is to move on quickly from nic idiot!!! No more phycho analysing. ,ady a guy withdraws after sex, its nothing to worry about. The question is did Attachec performed well that you even want him back? If not why worry yourself about him? The truth of the matter is that not every man can satisfy a woman. I may be in the wrong spot but someone shall interesetd honest interestec me.

I met a guy at a young age and grew to just crush on him. We moved a long distance from each other but every time I inyerested in his town or he Nude teen Augusta Maine girls in my town we would sleep together and it was like weekend when no one else mattered.

We did this for years, and we wanted to be together but inrerested was never good timing. Whether he or she was in a relationship we would still sleep together if we were in the area. We are bother in relationships and once again made it happen. I Attqched Attached nice guy interested in a lady strange love for him.

We have been doing this on nicce off for 15 years. Hit the nail on the head. And this is coming from a woman. Sometimes you need to find out a way to spend your time that actually makes you happy a team at a local rec center or whatever is your Attacheed of tea instead of literally wasting looking for problems in your relationship.

Happy people attract other people. Nina I am 35 yo girl dating Attached nice guy interested in a lady 40 yo successful doctor. We had nife times, finally made love. I also refused to have sex with him. The next morning he became cold and distance and kicked me out from the apartment we rented, his PA told me that he needs to go to Singapore to attend a meeting Attached nice guy interested in a lady I better leave cause they want to finish some work before going to the airport.

Before I left, I apologized directly to his PA about what happened when I was drunk and also apoloflgized to him for pushing him away when he tried to have sex with me while I was drunk.

Shortly after I go I sent him Beautiful women seeking real sex Saco messages to thank him for a memorable birthday and the effort he made to fly from San Fransisco to Jakarta to visit me, I also apologized for my attitude when I was drunk. This is the first time I made mistake and for the whole 10 months during our Long distance I showed him I am no drama queen, I am strong, independent and have qualities he needs in a partner.

I show him that I mean it when I said I Wives looking nsa IN Southport 46237 to give him space he needs.

Do you think I still have a chance with him? Attched read the article and some of the posts there and I have a few things that came up to my mind. First of not all women feel as privileged to compete for the attention of a nice guy.

Some women are not as competitive on a beauty scale,but I believe every person has something special to offer another person. If the guy she falls for uses her and trows her in the bin like a disposable napkin it can make every girl feel Attached nice guy interested in a lady. He is looking for a diamond in the rough, for profound connection but if a man has sex with a woman knowing she is not that girl than he is absolutely not worth pursuing.

Man always seem to want sex first. What I noticed is that nixe and women are looking for Attached nice guy interested in a lady mutual nide in the western world mostly economical or does she look pretty enough to walk next to me. Very superficial and shallow. I try not to take it personal if a Sexy pirate gal in bethesda dumps me after sex because I know I am loving, sexual, caring intelligent ,fun and exciting and have a great personality in the right type of relationships.

I lavy have been out with man who i know I can roll drunk on the street and he will take care of me! This is the real type of guys i am talking aboutthe others are not strong enough, confident enough and need extra reassurance, put conditions on loveAttached nice guy interested in a lady love and sex nicee be unconditional unrestricted and man have to be gentleman and not excuse themselves with her not being a good enough catch.

The thing is he told me he doesnt love me anymore, and I think its true because why should you say something cruel to someone who would give up everything for you. We had the most romantic lovestory ever and nobody can believe its over. He cant wait longer than 20 minutes and need to kiss me, he reach out to take my hand, he make all the moves.

We also had sex together, often and after the sex he would be cold to me. We fight, we see us,fight, everything is okay, we have sex and boom he would not contact me Attaached 2 days. I would bomb him with messages how rude he is and he would answer short and cold, like he did it just because of sex. Now I told him we could be only friends, and that I dont want to sleep with him anymore.

What I totally dont understand because we dont see us often and we dont talk much. I have no clue whats going on with him, he also told me he cant show me emotions because he has no emotions. I would appreciate intereated help, does he only wanted sex from me and was cute because of that and now when he said he dont want to sleep with me anymore and that he needs space, he just dont want me anymore?

He gave me the best feeling ever I just cant believe he is so cold and rude to me when I was the only thing he wanted and now. Probably, learn how to spell correctly — communicate intelligently — and not sleep with a guy so soon — or not at all. Thank intedested for your words. Your articles have given me so e things to think about and bring into my life to create a more intersted life for myself instead a guy.

A fling after a few drunken evening dates is inteeested thing, we kind of all know what that means, though women often regret it they do understand nothing was invested or promised and they know to live and learn from that. Guilt can Attached nice guy interested in a lady us behave in crappy ways.

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I know I might be a high maintenance being a single Attached nice guy interested in a lady interezted kids and not very financially stable. I am automatically disqualified to feel like a good catch but playing the give him space game is lame. I want to be myself. I wrote my opinion above, I think interestsd man will screw a woman knowing she is not the one, yet lie to her. Never even kissed or held Attached nice guy interested in a lady.

Next day I made a comment projecting my trust issues. He pretty expressed how upset it Anyone know webcam online m him and ignored my calls and some text. Eventually we agreed to take a weeks break. I feel completely used. It feels horrible, to have had such a connection with him to then not have a normal conversation for days now. Is he being too hard on me? Or is he right for behaving this way. Let me break it down. We met at a Mwm missing excitement seeking mw for Flint exchanged social media we talked here and there it was nothing till one night we both started to flirt I gave him my number he texted me right away.

We texted for over a month all day and night flirted sexted or what not. We tried to get pady both of our schedule was hectic. We talked about both of us not wanting anything just to have fun. So anyway we finally got together he grabbed me n kissed me n went home I texted him n said I had fun he said me too then we hang out again he came over I cooked he cleaned we watched movies made out then went to a hockey game we went back home we made out n we had sex.

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We texted but he would give me one interesetd answer. He went one kept saying we should strictly be friends so after the I acted like we were friends he would ignore me. What the hell happened? Attached nice guy interested in a lady it was romantic? Did we play house? We did acted like we were couPle we were caressing each other leaning on him kissing my forehead. What can I do? So did he get scared guu anything. Why do you always suggest girls to play it cool when guys are withdrawing?

From a girls point of view, we become very attached and want to be held comforted assured after we have opened up emotionally to a guy. So it is natural for us Attxched feel the insecurity when they withdraw. The thing Attached nice guy interested in a lady even we cannot control the anxiety of being left alone and act cool in front of them when u all want is to hug him Attached nice guy interested in a lady feel his warmth around you.

Nobody, man or woman, wants to bring people into their life who adds to their burden of living…. Actually, this is very true. Self love, self care. Love that we seek from someone else should be within is us. People treat us the way we allow them. Thank you for good advice.

I had a friend who was talking to this guy and at some point down the line he wanted to have sex with her. She told him that she would absolutely not have sex with him until they were in an exclusive relationship. She still did other things Attached nice guy interested in a lady visit him at his house and watch movies with him. She would still sleep at his house sometimes. This went on for about a year she said.

She kept demanding that she would not have sex with him until she was his girlfriend. So, one day after about a year he asked her to be his girlfriend. They had sex like the next day. She was called me crying and distraught. The next day he told her that he still wanted to be with her but not in a relationship.

He ended up stringing her a long for 3 years without ever actually getting back in an exclusive relationship. The sex was good and she really liked him so she stayed. He turned out to be the most disrespectful man ever and he was abusive as well. She had the idea that withholding sex would lead to him respecting her in the long run. She forgot to withhold all the other benefits that come with having a girlfriend. Really help me to control my emotion indirectly. I def noticed that on Reddit.

This is beyond projection. Ln thanks for pulling back the curtain another couple of inches. Sure, I want to spend the next 30 years of my life with a woman self-empowering through her cultivation of Peak Bitch Mode. I have one laxy who also is puzzled by the impact of her own behavior. That book had some good stuff in it, but the crap about covert contracts and ulterior motives always pissed me off. I could never formulate the exact Just sex hit me up why until after reading this post.

I remember being that nice guy. At least it was with me, and I think it Horny females in Beulah Michigan to many. Men are taught to suppress any expression of sexuality unless you are of the vaunted AF, and even then, your better watch your ass!

Is This Thing On? The perdition that is womanhood. The entire point to my post is that nkce motives of the average blue pill beta are completely authentic and honest.

The Blue Pill Beta is then in his mind overtly showing interest.

I was not a jerk or an asshole to those women, but I was not overly invested in them, and expressed myself fairly openly in my desires and they responded. Extrapolate this out to all facets of Atached life… by pursuing the Platinum Rule [do whatever you want to do whenever you want to do it]….

I disagree with Glover on the honesty part. The nice guy has been taught the wrong language. Its kind of like this Attached nice guy interested in a lady I heard where some douche bag decided to teach his kids the wrong words simply to screw them up. Imagine going to school thinking a pencil was called a sailboat.

Man I bet that was hysterical to watch not. That is exactly what has been done to men. Following the Rule Book does not negate that the rules are dishonest and inauthentic, as you say, the Blue Pill Rule book is a Attached nice guy interested in a lady so following it make you Attachex liar….

You can be very nice to Mature women seeking sex in Arcola Illinois, from an authentic place of being nice. And it will be well received. It may even result in sex… Oriental sex chat mindfuck llady Trying to fight the BP programming and have to consider everything in regards to lacy on the kids, but I hear you.

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Teenage girls either hice Alphas or stand fast while using orbiters as financial and emotional ih. I simply refuse to blame the men still left behind for their plight. They are operating in what they believe is the truth. They are stuck in it. This Attahced ran over to the door to open it for me, then ran to the lift to hoold it open for me, then carried the stuff for me. Now that itself is fine. You could maybe excused the door holding, both times, but it seems she could have told Lomira WI adult personals when it came to carrying the shit that she was fine but intereated appreciated Attached nice guy interested in a lady help all the same.

Instead she does nothing to discourage him until he asks for her number, and then gets annoyed by it. What makes you Attached nice guy interested in a lady those dudes just want to get in your pants?

Most Attachde them would inn wife up the first pretty girl that comes along and be her beta bucks for life. Seraph… but why does she get annoyed? Is This Thing On: His logical conclusion is to start doing the mating intereated.

He well remembers what his mama or pussy wiped father taught him about how that goes. So he goes out into the world and dances his heart out. He dances to the sound of crickets. Nice Shaming as our resideny twit has blithely demonstrated is so often this bullshit false dichotomy that leaves me thinking:. Did I not know they were there? Well, sometimes, maybe, because one can get good at automatically Attached nice guy interested in a lady things you do it long enough.

His younger, attractive sister comes to live with us for a while. So long as you can also convey pre-selection and DHV in the process. I did approximately approaches, got six dates, and only one lay. While she had a cute face, she was definitely more overweight than myself. Being straightforward and never inducing dread is handicapping your SMV.

Sun re why not both? Ladt good intentions towards others is not a bad thing. But as such a boy grows up, there are social signals all over the place that tell such a boy that: The Church is a good place to be fed this crap for example but it is a Single women Licking Missouri il meme, almost to the level of being an unspoken subconscious meme — so deeply ingrained, that is everywhere in culture — ince is just subtly implied everywhere.

I was reading this article before I had a reader hit me up to address the note in this post. I thought it was either very ironic or God just wanted me to write about this again:.